I spent the solstice gathering a few cuttings from the garden and marveling at what survives both drought and early frost. Plants are resilient.
I snipped three miniature roses, a handful of Salvia leucantha, and geranium foliage to make a small arrangement. There’s a sprig of something pink in there as well, but in the early hours, the name escapes me.
My youngest son is home for the holidays this year, along with his sweet pup Juneau. I’m so happy to have them here for a few weeks, but Juneau’s boisterous presence puts out all three felines.
So, for now, our bedroom serves triple duty as Mike’s office and a feline hotel. Lindy is oblivious to the dog’s presence, but she has to share her favorite spot under the bed. Mouse wants to let the dog know he’s in charge, and Tessa is scared. Extra loving and treats help smooth things out, and of course, the situation is temporary.
I made several Christmas cards this year, but I’ve been slow to send them. Lifted Spirits hosted its first-ever “shop without your wallet” event for survivors of domestic violence. It was an enormous time commitment organizing clothing racks, scarves, and other goodies, but it all came together beautifully. My friend and fellow volunteer Mary organized refreshments and volunteers for the day. Our ED quietly got the word out.
I set up craft tables for the children in the center of the room, and a colleague donated an over-the-top Christmas tree, pictured below. Clothing and jewelry stations were arranged in a U-shape so the children could see their mother at all times and vice-versa.
The success of this event has energized us. Our team hopes to do this again in the future. Throughout the event, we served 65 women and 35 children. Domestic violence has soared since the start of the pandemic. I needed to focus on our work instead of its reasons for my sanity.
December’s creative endeavors included my annual snow globe
and a seasonal update to my miniature display. These projects are restorative and fun.
Today I’m headed downtown for our pandemic-friendly Christmas celebration for women in need. After that, I’ll enjoy a week off with my family and the quiet unfolding of moments spent together.
Merry Christmas!
I love the Shop Without a Wallet initiative, very thoughtful. A great way to help others. Thanks for your efforts!
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Thank you, Judith.
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Your levels of creativity never cease to amaze. The decorations, snow globe and the miniature winter scene on top of the cards you make are all so delightful. You really do fill up your plate well. Glad you are taking the time off to be with the family. Poor Juneau just wants to be part of the gang. It takes cats so long to welcome an outsider. If he is patient, they will come around. IBut a week or more may not be enough time. Look how long it took Orlando to accept Siddy. 😉 I wish there was something I could do for your ladies. I’m thinking on it. We are in Mannheim for the next 5 days. So far, quite lovely. Thinking of you all and wishing you the merriest of Christmas’ Love and hugs. M
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Thank you as always Marlene for your kind and thoughtful words. I like that expression “filling up your plate well.” I know cats and dogs can learn to get along, but as you say, the visits are brief and don’t allow the time for true integration. I had forgotten about Orlando’s original reticence with Siddy. They became good friends after a time. The new year approaches. I hope your lungs are holding up okay. xo
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Lungs are doing well. Getting good exercise here so that’s helping. We are walking all through town but staying out of crowded places. I’m trusting the guidance I get. E & E wound up with the flu during Christmas and may have passed it to her elders. Glad we weren’t there. 😉 I don’t get flu but love avoiding it more. 🙂
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I’m glad you are walking and staying healthy. I’m really sorry to hear that E and E, plus elders got the flu. Did they test for covid to be sure they aren’t spreading it since they’re not vaccinated? How scary all around. It’s brutal either way to be so sick. I hope her parents are recovering .
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No to the testing. Duh! I don’t know yet if the elders got it. Took E two days to catch it from the other E. We shall see. That’s all I’m going to say on the subject. They are brutal with strictness here. Yay! Using lots of common sense in most but not all areas. Same as where we live. Lots of contrast. I think the parents are vaccinated. Too risky not to be. Stupid kids. I’ll get my booster asap.
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Merry Christmas. I live your crafts. How great to get blooms from your garden. What a wonderful volunteer work you are doing. Enjoy your son and his doggo. Our son and daughter (son in law too) will be here for a few days with their pups. Our sons dog is joyful and exuberant and weighs 80lbs. She is a bit of a terrorist. Our daughters dog is bossy and he gets upset with the pups antics. But, there are no cats here for them to upset.
Take care my friend.
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Love your crafts not live!! Oh bother!!
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Oh Amy, the internet is littered with my typos. I knew what you meant and I appreciate every word. xo
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I hope your Christmas was merry, Amy. I know it wasn’t quiet though! The idea of an 80 pound dog and a bossy-boots makes for some humorous vignettes. I hope everyone managed to get along. Sending good vibes for a happy 2022.
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Oh, my word! This post brought tears to my eyes. What a lovely and thoughtful event, making the season brighter for those mothers and families. As for your decorations… only one word will do… wowsah! Enjoy your time with your son and his boisterous dog.
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Thank you, Laurie, on all fronts. I love your “wowsahs”. You make me smile.
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A wonderful cause that serves an important need. Loved your little fairy displays, too. Enjoy your visiting family and Merry Christmas to all, Alys!
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Thank you, Eliza. I hope you’ve had a merry Christmas. Now that we’ve passed the winter solstice, we can start dreaming of spring gardens once again. I know your’s is fabulous.
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Thanks, I’m looking forward to spring as well. 🙂
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I like your festive Sleigh arrangement. The special project “shop without your wallet” is such a kind and thoughtful one. Happy Holidays to you.
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Thank you! Happy holidays to you, too.
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So fun to see snow in your garden 😀 spilling over your seasonal scenes. It’s funny, my fairy garden enjoys a tropical vibe because it’s snowy outside while yours enjoy a winter vibe while it’s tropical outside.
Your event sounds amazing! Bravo for helping so many. I’m glad you could continue on with things after so much uncertainty about a move. It’s wonderful to have so many willing to make Christmas special for these ladies.
It’s actually snowing pretty hard while I visit here and it’s to continue all day. It looks like I’m living in your snowglobe like Truman 😀 Can you see me waving? Have a great visit with your fellows over the holidays, big hugs all around sweet Alys. Much Love sent your way 💗🎅
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I’ll bet you wish you were in Truman’s snow globe as the real deal outside your doors sounds brutal. I read about the risks of “frostbite and hypothermia” in your weather report. Sheesh. I can hardly imagine it.
I like your fairy garden comparison. Sending tropical vibes your way, dear Boomdee.
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tropical vibes much appreciated 😀💗
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i loved everything about this post. It was all so delightfully you, with your care, generosity and delight in everything. I can understand the time your shop took to set up, and can understand the quiet satisfaction you felt at the end. Like Marlene I wonder what I can do to help. Donation? Maybe there is some way you can harness your bloggy friends. A fund raiser? Things for a raffle? Anyway, you don’t want to think about that now.
So sit back with your loved ones, put your feet up and enjoy the antics of the four-legged members of the family! Have a joyous time, Alys, and here’s too a better 2022!
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Anne, you are such a treasure! You have helped women from afar, sending beautiful scarves across the miles, along with your continued good wishes and great ideas. Thank you, thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
We had a joyous Christmas day, including some much-needed rain. I hope your celebrations have been equally warm and wonderful. Three cheers to a better 2022.
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Merry Christmas, Alys.
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…Happy Boxing day, Helen.
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Thank you, Alys. Having a good day here – I hope you are, too 😊
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That’s good to hear, Helen. It’s almost 9 am here. I’m enjoying some quiet time while the rest of the household sleeps in. The sun is shining after a day of rain and I can see the lights from our Christmas tree reflected in the window.
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It’s almost time for out evening meal here, by comparison! I’m trying out the tracing paper for sewing by mending a pair of jeans using the sashiko method.
I hope you’ll have sunshine for the rest of the day.
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I had to look that up. I’m intrigued!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sashiko
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It’s hard to do – I really admire the work in the link, my book etc. However, practice makes perfect 😊
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I love the idea of “shop without a wallet” – there are food stores like that in parts of my country – and of course since the Pandemic roared into town, many “food pantries” had to close but my local f/b had many organisations offering help. A large ethnic food store had “shop without a wallet” or if you did have some spare cash, pop it in a box system.
The food pantries are just semi closets in carparks or similar where you can place any food stuff for anonymous folk to come by and collect what they need…some of course are abused (not the people] A couple of weeks ago I gave my helper some food to put in a pantry near her…
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts here. I like the idea of free food pantries. We have several Little Free Libraries here that are also offering canned goods. I like the idea of give what you can and take what you need. People the world over will take advantage of any system, but I prefer to focus on all the folks that take what they need and leave the rest.
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Some fine projects here, not least your work for women in need
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Thank you, Derrick!
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Have a wonderful time with your family – and that beautiful dog! – this Christmas, you deserve it after all your hard work with those less fortunate women.
xxx
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Thank you, Lynn!
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Ah, this blog just spread peace. The shop without a wallet initiative is so worthwhile and your little winter scene charmed me. Enjoy your holidays, Alys. And best wishes for the new year!
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Thank you, Lisa. I hope you’re enjoying the season with the slower pace of retirement. It allows things to slow down and find a mellower pace. I’m glad you enjoyed this post. Best wishes for the coming year.
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It really is amazing that your miniature garden looks life sized and with real snow in these photos! I’m so glad the event was a success even if the work that goes into it was extensive. Thank you for your work ❤ Enjoy your men this holiday and I'll "see" you on the 2nd! Love you!
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Laurie, thanks for reading and commenting. I’ve enjoyed seeing your comments in other places this week as well, in this wonderful blogging world. We had a lovely Christmas, here with the guys, and for an hour at my sister’s as well. We had rain (be still my heart) which made for an extra-special day. I hope your celebrations have been as wonderful as you are. xo
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What a wonderful event you organised. I love that the children could see and be seen at all times. That’s safeguarding done brilliantly. And your crafts, the flower arrangement, just lovely. Thank you for an uplifting post.
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Thank you so much for your kind words.
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