I miss Pauline. Our clever, artistic, kind, and generous friend should be celebrating another birthday this week.
So many of us got to know Pauline King when she joined the blogging community. In my case, our online friendship blossomed into in-person meetups, first on this side of the world and later in beautiful New Zealand. In between those visits, we made do with video chats.

Pauline slipped away on her birthday last year, but she left a remarkable gift: a warm and deepening friendship with her daughters Danella and Jo.
Today I want to offer you a gift to honor and celebrate Pauline’s extraordinary life, but first an explanation.
Pauline’s June, 2019 post Vivid Colours, features several pieces of her original work. As always, wonderful conversations in the comments section followed. I fell in love with one of her cards featuring her cat Orlando. I suggested:
The Orlando card got me thinking, too. If you’re ever inspired, you could move the text down along the books to narrow the design and print bookmarks. I would buy 100 of them for my LFL. Just a thought.
Alys
The always-generous Pauline did just that, but instead of selling them to me, she sent me a PDF with the following note:

In honor of Pauline’s birthday September 5th, I would like to send you one of her bookmarks. Please don’t worry about the cost of postage. I want to share her bookmarks around the world. This offer is open to anyone who appreciates her art. Please send me your mailing address using my Contact Form, and I will mail you a bookmark-sized slice of Pauline’s art.
If you followed Pauline, please share a favorite memory in the comments below.
Happy birthday, Pauline!

This post is dedicated to Pauline’s daughters, Jo and Danella, and to Pauline’s puppy Siddy and her marmalade cat Orlando who continue to live the good life with Danella.
I didn’t follow Pauline but I’ve always enjoyed the thing you shared about her and am saddened by her loss. But what a lovely gesture to share her artwork ❤️.
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Thank you, Sara.
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A lovely tribute to a lovely person. I will be requestion a bookmark.
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I look forward to receiving your address. xo
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I have sent it to you via the contact form.
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I have a bad feeling about my contact form. I didn’t receive any requests, not just yours. Would you be willing to send another note using the word “testing” in the subject line? I’m thinking something is amiss.
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Will do!
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Well, darn! Should be requesting. 😉
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You just brought tears to my eyes with this. What a wonderful reminder of how powerful friendships are and what a great forum blogging can be. Thank you and hugs.
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I’m sending a virtual hug your way. Thank you for reading and sharing your feelings. Blogging has been an extraordinary experience for me this past decade in ways I could have never imagined. Meeting Pauline, then having the chance to spend time with her on two sides of the world was an amazing gift. Sharing a friendship with her daughters, too, has been wonderful. xo
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Blogging had just been a god send for me. At one point I was referred to palliative care and was assigned a social worker. She told me to keep a journal, but when I said that I wrote a blog it was like; carry on! I’m so glad that you made such a strong friendship.
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Thank you for sharing your story about journaling and your blog. Wow! You’ve really been through so much. I’m glad you are beating the odds and living a good life, albeit a huge adjustment from life before your diagnosis. You are a strong woman, full of light and joy.
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Thank you. That is one of the nicest things ever said to me. 🙂
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Bless her. I often catch a glimpse of her lovely smile on blogs who have photos of their followers in the sidebar – like you and Kate do. I miss her posts and loved reading about when you met up and had a wonderful time together. I’m so glad Pauline’s beloved pets are still beloved by Daniella who I imagine must be comforted by their presence in her life as a constant reminder of her mother.
Thank you for the tribute to a lovely lady Alys.
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Thank you, Lynn. It’s nice seeing Pauline’s smile in my sidebar. I’m glad her daughters have kept the blog live so her kind face is still there. We had such an amazing time in Virginia and DC and again in New Zealand. I count both holidays among the most extraordinary in my life. Danella and Jo love to dote on Siddy, so he’s one contented “puppy” as Pauline would say. I hope you are doing well. xo
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That’s a lovely gesture Alys, and from what you have written about Pauline in the past I am sure she would approve. 😃
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Thank you, Cathy. That’s kind of you to say. xo
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She was such a generous person – both with her art and with advice and support. She often helped me through difficult times and was a true friend despite the fact that we never met in person. I often wonder how Siddy is getting on without his beloved Pauline. I have an original bookmark that she sent me, and it’s often marking a place in a book I’m reading and reminding me of her. I can hardly believe she’s been gone a year.
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Jan, I’m happy to hear how Pauline touched your life. You couldn’t ask for a better friend. She shared her wisdom with all who knew her, leaving an indelible mark.
I don’t think Siddy understood Pauline’s loss. It must be so confusing to their sweet little souls when they lose their person like that. Danella always played a big role in his life, so it’s a wonderful and natural progression that he now lives with her.
xo
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What a beautiful tribute to our sweet friend, Pauline. I do miss her so much. Thank you for this, Alys. xo
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Thank you for commenting, Jill. I miss her too. Some days it feels as if she’s just beyond reach in our blogging world. Pauline’s wise ways left a mark on all of us.
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Such a lovely post! Pauline had such a gift of kindness and of knowing how to say just the right things in just the right way. She often astounded me with her perception and kind acceptance of what she perceived.
And her art was such a part of her and she taught me so much there, too.
Thank you for letting me know that her precious daughters and pets are all doing well. Hugs to all of you.
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Thank you, Jodie. You are so right about Pauline’s perceptive ways. It was a gift for all who knew her. Sometimes I’m still amazed that we find each other in this vast blogging world.It’s extraordinary.
Hugs back your way, Jodie
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I have Pauline’s art all around me. There isn’t a day goes by that she doesn’t drift though my thoughts. I haven’t seen those little bookmarks before though. They are just sweet. I spent an hour or more with her on Skype talking about my diagnosis. She helped me digest that so well. Jo sent a sweet greeting to me yesterday on FB. You know I’m profoundly affected by her passing on her birthday. Just doesn’t seem right or real. Like you, she has a great heart that continues to give through you. Clever woman. 😉 Hugs and love all the way around my kind and generous friends.
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Thank you for your kind words, MH. I remember seeing Pauline’s art in your lovely home, and I think we may have posed for a photo in front of one of her works. I’m happy to hear that Pauline helped you through some of those early days of your diagnosis. She was good at so many things, with the biggest, most generous heart. xo
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I’ve been thinking of her since I woke this morning at 4 a.m. She’s everywhere in my home. As you are also. We have a lot of smoke this weekend so I’m staying inside. Hope you are not having smoke and are doing ok. Missing you. Hugs and love. m
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Hugs and love to you, too. The smoke comes and goes, but we’ve had a couple of good says here. I hadn’t realized how much I was missing blue skies till they reappeared. xo
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❤ A lovely gesture of remembrance, Alys.
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Thank you, Eliza.
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Thank you for this lovely tribute to Pauline. She was so kind and generous.
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Thank you, Amanda. She was indeed.
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I met her blog but not in real time via another persons blog/link – even though I also live in NZ but in the NI. It was one of her last posts was about using alcohol inks – and with her encouragement I bought some and tried them out. And I still use that style of art making when I need a particular item for another project. I don’t read ordinary books anymore, but what a lovely gesture you are offering. Cheers Catherine
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Thank you for sharing, Catherine. It’s nice to hear how Pauline inspired you. She touched so many lives.
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What a great way of sharing Pauline’s art Alys. I miss her also and my biggest regret is never meeting her in person.
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I wish you could have met her, too, Joe. Pauline touched so many lives.
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This is my first time reading about Pauline, and she sounds like a wonderful human being.
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Bethany, she was. Pauline was beloved by all who floated into her sphere. I wish you could have known her, too. Thank you for stopping by.
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A sweet memorial post Alys. How lovely to share the bookmarks. It’s been a tough couple of days for everyone that loved her. Time is going by too fast, it seems like yesterday that we were in Wanaka 💛💛 Sending love your way xK
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Love back your way, sweet Boomdee. I’m grateful for every day that we’ve spent together.
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I’m a little late to this post because I arrived via Laurie’s post today. Pauline and I were regulars on each other’s blog for a long time … and I recall when she visited a group here in the US. I even considered driving from Cincinnati to the east contact to meet her. However, I will admit that I didn’t know of her passing. Such a kind and intelligent person with a sense of humor. Thanks for this post.
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Frank, I’m sorry to have missed this comment from a few weeks ago. It would have been fun having you join the traveling bloggers. I’ve never had a trip quite like it. I hope you are doing well. Thank you for sharing your memories.
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No problem …. and thanks for posting a tribute to Pauline!
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I just saw Laurie’s post today so I’m late, but want to say that I miss Pauline (and just missed meeting her when she came to the U.S. — the timing didn’t work out) and it was so wonderful to be reminded of her and her artwork today. Thank you.
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Robin, it would have been nice to have met another Pauline fan in the US. I’m amazed at how many of us were able to get together. I’m happy to find your comment here and I’m always pleased to hear from others who’ve been touched by Pauline.
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