My email inbox fills regularly with requests for donations, and for the most part, the requests are financial. Last week, however, the special donations department at Stanford Blood Center contacted me with a truly special request:

Hi Alys,
We are reaching out to you today in the hopes you would be available to donate for a particular patient who has specific transfusion needs and with whom you are compatible. Not only does your ABO/Rh match this patient, but your red cell antigen phenotypes are also a match.
How do you say no to that? I confirmed my eligibility to give (I’m seven months post-hip surgery), and they said yes. I booked the appointment for September 11 and donated my pint in a record five minutes. It also happened to be my 25th blood donation at Stanford.
In 2022, Stanford sent an email confirming that through two separate blood donations,

they were able to verify that the combination of blood groups you have is, in fact, rare and will be particularly essential for supporting patients with your same blood group profile! Though this rare typing program is still in its early stages, we expect to be able to share more with you in the coming months via your online donor portal.
Three years later, I made my first blood donation match.
I’ve thought a lot about the anonymous patient with ongoing transfusion needs, and how remarkable it is for both giver and receiver that we have the technology to pinpoint blood components to this impressive degree.
It’s life-affirming knowing that my whole blood donation will make a difference.
Now that is the most heartening news I’ve had this week! Well done, Alys! ππΌ
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Thank you, Eliza. XO
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Oh my goodness, Alys, that is really special. Wonderful to receive something like that and know you can make sure an important donation. Bravo!
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Jane, it felt so good to know I could make a difference. I wish my parents were alive to learn about my unique blood markers, passed down through their DNA.
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You certainly reminded us what kindness and generosity looks like. Thank you.
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Thank you, Judy. Thatβs a lovely thing to say.
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Wow, thatβs amazing; I had no idea this type of matching happened! So glad you were available to step up. β€οΈ
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Thank you. I think itβs fairly new. I look forward to what they might discover next.
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A great story Alys. ππ
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Thank you!
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Wow that is so wonderful – and you are definitely touching a life!
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Thank you, Tierney.
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I admire your personal “life-affirming” act of kindness. Brava!
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As you know, when you donate blood, you have to sign a form, indicating youβre aware that ultimately your blood may not be used for a variety of reasons.
It must be nice to know that this donation will definitely be used. Way to go! From now on, Iβm calling you ABO/Rh.
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Oh Wow! I would feel so privileged to be able to do that. I am a regular blood donor and looked into going on the bone marrow register but was already too old. My late husband had lymphatic cancer and needed blood products at various times so I always think of it as passing on the kindness he received and paying it forward in case I ever need a transfusion.
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Iβm sorry to hear of your loss. I think itβs wonderful that you are a regular donor. itβs a nice way to honor your husband and as you say, pay it forward. Xo
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Alys, this is wonderful! I donate regularly, yoo, but have not heard of the rare typing program. This makes your already generous commitment to blood donation, even better!! XO
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Not sure why my comment was characterized as anonymous. Another weird thing is that I had to go to my phone to comment; for some reason when I tried on my laptop, it wouldn’t post
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WordPress can be unpredictable. Itβs hard to fix something when you donβt know why it isnβt working in the first place. A lot of friends have started showing up as anonymous or βsomeoneβ when they comment. Thank you for letting me know it is you.
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Thank you for being a donor. You are amazing.
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What you are doing is so selfless Alys. My father in law had leukaemia and needed transfusions, so I know firsthand how much of a difference donors make. Thank you for giving someone else that same gift of hope.
Sara (Birdz of a Feather)
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Thank you for sharing that, Sara, and for your kind words. It makes me happy to give.
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Alys, dear heart, I have always known that you are a very special person. What a wonderful gift of health and life you have given… 25 times!! You truly make a difference, my friend! Heartfelt thanks for being YOU!! β₯οΈ Dawn
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